to an extent it feels almost impossible to properly thank the people who will attend your wedding. they’ve likely known you and your fiance as individuals but also together as a couple, and they have hopefully been a positive influence in your lives. more than moral support and late night phone calls, these folks are taking time out of their busy schedules to spend their hard-earned money on flights and rental cars and hotel rooms and gifts and new outfits so that they can be with you to celebrate on your big day. and when you put it that way, it only seems appropriate to figure out a way to thank them for all they have done.
having been to my fair share of weddings, i’ve undoubtedly seen a wide variety of guest gifts and favors. one of the more popular trends these days is a packed gift box you receive upon checking into the hotel for the wedding weekend. these parcels typically include a sweet note, favorite treats of the bride and groom, handmade tokens, and sometimes even souvenirs from the couple’s most beloved local spots. i have been the fortunate recipient of a few boxes and bags such as these and am quite grateful and flattered when i unpack the generous contents, especially after a long night of dancing and drinking, at that most critical moment when a hand-picked goodie is just the ticket!
when phillip and i first started brainstorming favor ideas, this one seemed like as good an idea as any, and we were very quickly able to put together a list of items that would perfectly represent us to our guests. however, there were two big hurdles we just couldn’t cross. first, although it might not be a large cost to put together one bag with, say, five items, think about multiplying that cost by 100 or even 200. and there isn’t just the financial cost of what it takes to get the supplies. you think all those cute little tins and baggies get stuffed in those boxes so neatly overnight all by themselves? you wish! i bet it could be fun if you were to put together a charming assembly line with your bridesmaids and champagne and favorite playlists, and if you have time for that, more power to you. me, i’ve got enough on my plate, so in this regard simpler is better. the second hurdle? the second hurdle is the little-known fact that sometimes a hotel will charge you to pass out those bags to guests as they arrive at the check-in counter, no matter how cute they are and regardless of how big your new monogrammed initials may be. and as i have said many times before, planning a wedding necessitates the art of compromise, and sometimes something’s just gotta give.
so, since we won’t be able to give each of you a wooden box engraved with your initials and turtle doves inside (because who wouldn’t want to figure out how to pack that in their carry-on), phillip and i got creative. now, we threw in a little tradition with a little quirkiness but don’t want to spoil the surprise! what we have picked out for our guests is something we hope will bring a smile to your face and warm memories to your minds after you return home and fondly think back to our wedding many days later. get ready! only 52 days to go!