i gave in, thanks to the convincing of my co-workers and friends, to embark upon the latest social dating scene: grouper. an event where i get two of my girlfriends to go with me and meet up with three fellas. a three-on-three date! a three-on-three, blind date! a three-on-three, blind, mega date! let the stories begin.
what is the key to eating alone and actually enjoying it? how about the key to being a single, solo, uno? if you ask me, or rather if i ask myself, the key to these things is being confident, not being pre-occupied with other people’s perceptions. the key is not conforming to what society, your friends, family, and peers expect of you. we are all on different paths with different destinations. it is highly unrealistic to think that your formula works, or even applies to me, to us, to the single people.
today i am not going to perch atop a soapbox and list reasons a, b, and c of why single people “have it better.” i don’t even want to make that argument. today i just am going to share my thoughts. after all, this is the kelsey v blog.